Standing/sitting there waiting for relief…and…nothing. Turn on the faucet and hope for nature to take over…and…nothing. Such is the life of those unfortunate souls that suffer from Shy Bladder Syndrome. The medical term for this malady is paruresis [ www.paruresis.org and www.shybladder.com ] and there are many other websites devoted to the nearly 3 million sufferers of this chronic plague, just take a look for yourself!
I have never had issue with my ability to pee no matter my surroundings, fluid in, fluid out, end of story. (Oh, and of course wash my hands, thanks for the reminder Zaki!) But the issue of being "pee shy" came up at work the other day and it had never really dawned on me that this could be such a problem. People, apparently, will go to the bathroom and sit there and wait for people to leave before they can start their stream! And it gets worse! Imagine sitting there on your personal throne awaiting the surging relief when all of a sudden, the door opens and you are unable to go…AT ALL!
Such is the daily routine of those quiet souls that unbeknownst to us walk among us living in a world of frustration and full bladders! For no cost to any of us per day, we can all help our fellow human beings with this scourge. All it takes is a knock on the bathroom door and a bit of solemn respect for the privacy of others.
Don't let that fifth cup of coffee, bottle of water, or beer rush you to the potty just in time to cork the flow of your cubicle neighbor, instead spare those less fortunate than yourself by being empathetic to their plight and allowing that single stall bathroom in your office to be their place of refuge and quiet reflection!
Thanks for your support!



