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Are You Pee Shy?

Tue Mar 27, 2007 1:43 PM EDT
health, urinate, paruresis, shy-bladder-syndrome, pee-shy, gotta-go-gotta-go-gotta-go-right-now
By vicaxp
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Standing/sitting there waiting for relief…and…nothing. Turn on the faucet and hope for nature to take over…and…nothing. Such is the life of those unfortunate souls that suffer from Shy Bladder Syndrome. The medical term for this malady is paruresis [ www.paruresis.org and www.shybladder.com ] and there are many other websites devoted to the nearly 3 million sufferers of this chronic plague, just take a look for yourself!

I have never had issue with my ability to pee no matter my surroundings, fluid in, fluid out, end of story. (Oh, and of course wash my hands, thanks for the reminder Zaki!) But the issue of being "pee shy" came up at work the other day and it had never really dawned on me that this could be such a problem. People, apparently, will go to the bathroom and sit there and wait for people to leave before they can start their stream! And it gets worse! Imagine sitting there on your personal throne awaiting the surging relief when all of a sudden, the door opens and you are unable to go…AT ALL!

Such is the daily routine of those quiet souls that unbeknownst to us walk among us living in a world of frustration and full bladders! For no cost to any of us per day, we can all help our fellow human beings with this scourge. All it takes is a knock on the bathroom door and a bit of solemn respect for the privacy of others.

Don't let that fifth cup of coffee, bottle of water, or beer rush you to the potty just in time to cork the flow of your cubicle neighbor, instead spare those less fortunate than yourself by being empathetic to their plight and allowing that single stall bathroom in your office to be their place of refuge and quiet reflection!

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vicaxp

What a relief!

  • 4 votes
Reply#1 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 1:44 PM EDT
Schwab

yes i am, now stop asking...you're making it worse.

  • 5 votes
Reply#2 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 2:27 PM EDT
Cash

Not me.. Without peeing in public restrooms I can't shame other men with my patented

"Wow - the water's cold in this toilet ...
... and deep, too."

  • 6 votes
Reply#3 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 3:59 PM EDT
Jason Ford

I hear something similar at almost every monthly poker game from whoever steps outside to go.

"Man, the dew is on the grass early."

  • 4 votes
#3.1 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 10:29 PM EDT
Brian Ford

I realize you still live in Indiana, Jason (and I've been gone for years) but my recollection is that the indoor toilet wasn't a rarity.

  • 5 votes
#3.2 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 11:29 PM EDT
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RumWalker

I just don't 'go' in public restrooms period (unless it's one hell of an emergency, in which case I don't care if the pope is in the washroom, I'm going to do my business). Just thinking of all the germs, and all the people that have been in there, sat on that throne..... *shiver*.

    Reply#4 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 4:25 PM EDT
    stevestr

    Great use of keywords, especially gotta-go. ;)

    • 1 vote
    Reply#5 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 6:16 PM EDT
    vicaxp

    Thank you! Glad someone caught that!

      #5.1 - Wed Mar 28, 2007 8:21 AM EDT
      Reply
      Jason Ford

      Fortunately, I've never had this problem. Coffee in, coffee out. I have even considered taking my coffee and dumping it right in the urinal at work just to save the steps later.

      • 5 votes
      Reply#6 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 10:31 PM EDT
      Cash

      I have even considered taking my coffee and dumping it right in the urinal at work

      I am all for freedom of speech and stuff, but that's just blasphemous. I wish I could clip just comments to a group - there are 52 coffee lovers who who would tear you to pieces for that. Don't get me wrong, we're boys and I'd make a pretense of defending you, but then I'd slip or something and they would get you.

      • 2 votes
      #6.1 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 11:11 PM EDT
      Reply
      TiaSilver

      I only have this problem sometimes. Unfortunately, "sometimes" usually means in the case of an emergency. For example, on New Years in the city when bathrooms are rarely available and I reaaaally have to go.

      • 2 votes
      Reply#7 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 11:40 PM EDT
      Nycam

      For some reason, multiplying numbers seems to help on the rare occasion when I pee into a trough or waterfall (at the Madonna Inn) with company. Multiplication distracts a part of your brain that otherwise limits your ability to pee. Of course, having Cash standing next to you going whiz whiz whiz may be too distracting for even multiplication to help.

      • 4 votes
      Reply#8 - Tue Mar 27, 2007 11:55 PM EDT
      JimmyHavok

      When I was younger, I had this problem, but as I've gotten older I've overcome a lot of my inhibitions, and I've learned some tricks for making it happen. The key move is to exhale from your chi-point. Exhaling like that creates a sense of relaxation, and once the flow starts it's work to stop it.

      • 1 vote
      Reply#9 - Wed Mar 28, 2007 4:27 AM EDT
      Schwab

      when i was younger, i didn't have this problem. I only get it sometimes and it's always curable by going into a stall or simply waiting long enough. I'll have to try the multiplying thing mentioned above or the exhaling thing but I have no idea where my chi-point would be. Also, I'm not really a shy person, especially when it comes to my genitals/nakedness so I have no idea why I get pee shy.

      • 2 votes
      #9.1 - Wed Mar 28, 2007 5:05 AM EDT
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      stevetherobot

      instead spare those less fortunate than yourself by being empathetic to their plight and allowing that single stall bathroom in your office to be their place of refuge and quiet reflection!

      Out of consideration for those less fortunate, I am going to just pee in the trash can by my desk instead of going to the restroom from now on.

      • 3 votes
      Reply#10 - Wed Mar 28, 2007 12:47 PM EDT
      vicaxp

      You sir are a wonderful human being!

      • 2 votes
      #10.1 - Thu Mar 29, 2007 8:49 AM EDT
      dcuben

      I wish I could find the clip - a substitute teacher in Durham, NC, got fired a couple of years ago for... (wait for it)... peeing in the trash can of the classroom, rather than taking a minute to go to the stall.

      Did I mention that this was in a middle school, and that students were in the class at the time? I guess it takes all kinds. (But clearly, she wasn't pee-shy!)

      • 2 votes
      #10.2 - Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:05 PM EDT
      vicaxp

      yikes!

      • 2 votes
      #10.3 - Thu Mar 29, 2007 11:26 PM EDT
      stevetherobot

      A couple of years ago in Montgomery, AL, a middle school teacher lost his job for allegedly making a middle schooler pee in a trash can in class.

      • 1 vote
      #10.4 - Fri Mar 30, 2007 9:29 AM EDT
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      Alpha Dog

      I was pee-ping through this thread and wondering, Vic -- did you intend this to be mainly a guy discussion, or did i just happen that way?

      • 3 votes
      Reply#11 - Wed Mar 28, 2007 10:43 PM EDT
      vicaxp

      Not guys only, gals always welcome! Did you want to share your thoughts?

      • 2 votes
      #11.1 - Thu Mar 29, 2007 8:50 AM EDT
      Alpha Dog

      I went through a phase when I first entered the corporate world where I became self conscious about 'pee sharing.' Fortunately that was short lived and now the only thing I think about in public restrooms is that blessed relief. It's never been an issue at home, though. In fact -- gotta go now ...

      • 2 votes
      #11.2 - Fri Mar 30, 2007 8:06 PM EDT
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      Andrea A

      I havn't P'd alone in 21 years, 4 kids to thank for that!! All boys for that matter. But God forbid I should hap in on them now.. too funny what happins by acident!

      • 3 votes
      Reply#12 - Thu Mar 29, 2007 7:31 PM EDT
      vicaxp

      I havn't P'd alone in 21 years

      HAD to be either a parent or an inmate...wait a minute...is that 'er... a synonym?

      • 4 votes
      #12.1 - Thu Mar 29, 2007 11:28 PM EDT
      stevetherobot

      Now that my kids are getting a little older I can finally demand a little privacy in the potty, but they still occasionally barge in while I'm on the can.

      • 2 votes
      #12.2 - Fri Mar 30, 2007 9:31 AM EDT
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      Only Known SurvivorDeleted
      Division by Zero

      I used to be pee-shy but college definitely broke me of that. In my freshman year we had just a row of urinals with no dividers and the toilets had no curtains or doors. After a couple of weeks guys gradually got comfortable with the idea of going to the restroom in such a public manner. Peeing wasn't much of a problem but guys started using strategy when it came to using the crapper. The most common strategies were to go when most people were in class or to go very early in the morning. We also had communal showers and most guys were quite uneasy about showering with other guys. It was probably not until midterms before that shyness went away. Oddly enough, none of the freshman women's dorms had open toilet stalls or communal showers.

      • 4 votes
      Reply#14 - Fri Mar 30, 2007 11:42 PM EDT
      Only Known SurvivorDeleted
      Division by Zero

      My dad explained that as being the likely reason the male dorms had such communal restrooms and showers. Most of the dorms had been built during the 60s and 70s when a good percentage of guys could be expected to spend time in the military or to have already spent time in the military. That wasn't true for women, so their facilities were built with privacy in mind.

      • 2 votes
      #14.2 - Sat Mar 31, 2007 10:28 AM EDT
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